Thanks a lot for all info.
my apologies for posting before searching the forums for the same issue.
i disabled all auto updates, i think this policy is very very wrong, despit theese so called “security issues”.
Nothing can justify any intervention in any website without permission, I still remember the damage I suffer 2 years ago with an upgrade in a site, after this update only one language was working, many hours of work lost.
if the wordpress team considers that what they do is right, lets tell us so we use wordpress never again.
I’m really outraged