My problem seems to be exactly the same as you mentioned, and i have tried what you said that you tried that appeared to work for you. I am entering:
update_option(‘siteurl’,’https://pinklilliesandbg.com/wordpress’);
update_option(‘home’,’https://pinklilliesandbg.com/wordpress’);
when i do this i get an error message and my blog does not come up. Can you advise if this is exactly what you did or if it is possibly a slight mistake i am making. I cant access anything and i am one step away from having to uninstall and lose everything !!