After loosing so much hair I finally got the solution which was right in front of me all the time…. it was not a plugin conflict had some stuff not checked in the screen options like custom sidebars, sidebar, custom fields and stuff like. Everything is all goodies now hope this hepls someone with the same problem next time…. Jus first check screen options in the upper right corner first before loosing your hair ??
thank you for your help
regards