WPBlogHost – your video ROCKS! However, for some reason the WP “lost password” finally worked and I was able to reset that way.
But in the meantime I followed your video and was in the SQL database when the temporary password WP sent actually worked. I got the “email not enabled” message several times and my host assured me that it is NOT disabled, so I have no idea what was going on.
Thank you both (you and Samboll) for sending suggestions.