I solved my problem ??
To give you guys my solution:
I replaced in the sidebar.php file the following:
<?php generate_sidebar_box($jfr_twitter, $jfr_sidebox_order, $jfr_nav_box, $jfr_sidebox_title); ?>
with:
<div class="sidebar_top"></div><div id="follow_links" class="widget follow-widget-5">
I took this part of the widget i wanted to see on top of the html sourcecode.
Thanks anyway :-)!