you know what, I am new as hell to this. I don’t think so, I think I will just let it ride for a bit, until I get a buddy over that is a computer person who can help out. I guess at the end of the day, I just want people to post stuff without having to click to many things and it to show up on the website page they posted at, to me seems simple, but for some reason its over my head with this theme thing. It think you are right and the theme change may have jacked up wordpress somehow.
Thanks again for your help, really appreciate it!