I did more research and it seems what was causing it was that I had changed my URL from https://www.url.com to just https://url.com. Apparently that messes with the cache as my Jetpack plugin wouldn’t work before and now that I added the “www” back in it seems to be working as well. ALSO I found that by using “wp-login.php” instead of “wp-admin” I was able to login… Just an explanation for those who find this with the same problem.
Now I’d like to have my website without the “www” so I didn’t really find a fix yet. Any suggestions on how to clear the cache?