Hello, goblue7!
I had same problem with Network Solutions & contact form 7 (also I tryed cforms II) and that how I managed to solve it.
I installed a wp-mail-from plugin in my WP and than create an email account “[email protected]” in my NetSol panel. After this I add this mail address into wp mail form field and here we go – its starts send the emails.
Hope it’s helps. Excuses for my English