I hope that this plugin is not similar to facebook *lol*, but I have never found a dating site where the user must constantly press refresh to see if a message has arrived.
a page refresh is not a solution.
We also have other features on our websites (sidebar) and there would be a constant refresh disturb.
maybe a refreshing widget would be a solution but not the whole website.
but this plugin have no sidebarwidge.
Unfortunately, this plugin has no widget ??