Update after installing wordpress 4.3:
I’ve been informed by the blog host (fasthosts.co.uk) that multiple pingbacks are incompatible with their servers. They say that pingbacks could lead to DDoS attacks. Given the amount of spam comments I receive (hundreds every day) I could well believe that someone would try multiple pingbacks as an attack, so I suppose it’s a legitimate concern.
The only workaround that I’ve found is to save the post in the wordpress editor as many times as there are links in the post, since on each save, another pingback is sent.
Multiple pingbacks do work on wordpress.com so either they aren’t concerned about DDoS, or they’ve modified the wordpress code to cope with the problem. In any case, it would be nice if some future version of www.remarpro.com fixed this problem.