I have just installed the wp-member plug-in and I am getting the same results. When I go to register at my blog at https://www.ngxchange.org, I see the standard registration form. Of course when I un-tick the box that will not allow everyone to register, there is no register link.
I want to use this plug-in so that I can ask for more info, as well as offer the TOS and secure things with re-CAPCHA. I need to have users register, but I also want this added information from the user.
Have I missed something?