That sucks. There has to be someone to contact at WordPress,org for issues that maybe only they can resolve. We had this with WordPress.com. I have a feeling that the issue we are experiencing is deeper than just plug-ins or layouts. We think it goes to the core of the latest update. We might try e-mailing WordPress.com and see if they can help or refer us to someone in the company that can.
Like we said we are giving the plug in thing as shot but we are not expecting it to help matters much. Hopefully we may be surprised. We hope so as we don’t know what happened all of a sudden with this after upgrading to the first 3.1 update. That is the first time we had any issues of this nature with video.
Thank you for your assitance and once we run out of options on our end to try then we will have to contact somemone.