thanks mackica , i’m retiring for today ,ill check it out tomorrow i actually think i made some great progress , check out my blog page
i found out that on every page in the template on the right side under PAGE ATTRIBUTES there’s an option for a right sidebar , choose that , then the widgets start to show when you customize in appearance
what i also did is went to customize and deselected the blog page from being the posts page and there it is , i now have a sidebar to the right on my blog page and i managed to get the description to be shown as well by adding a ” post loop” widget in the row
ill keep working on it tomorrow and check out your link as well
hope it works out for you too , best of luck