Ok, I talked to bluehost, funny how they are both owned by the same company but bluehost understood my question while hostgator didn’t even realize there were two different versions of wordpress. Perhaps it was just the one person I spoke with that didn’t understand. Anyway, I need to sign up with existing domain, load my .org files onto the host site, remove my domain from wordpress.com and set it to private, and point my .org site to bluehost. These steps are not clearly shown, in that order, anywhere that I can find. Sure you can dig through and finally figure it out after hitting you had against the table repeatedly but I need pictures people! lol Thank you for the input:)