Obviously I tried changing my email in my profile on my site. And it did not work. I am not an idiot.
I am also well aware that my gravitar is supposed to show up in comments on my site. But it is not showing up, because of the very problem that I outlined above. Which is one of the reasons why I posted here in the first place.
I am posting the problem HERE because I was under the mistaken impression that I could find help here.
Don’t worry, I will never bother to post here again.