Youtube-vids redirect to youtube.com

When I ad a YouTube link to a blog it at first seems to start on the current blog-mesage, but immidiately after that redirects to YouTube.com to play the vid from there. Only after disabling lazy load for YouTube videos, it works again normally using normal WP functions. I don’t want users by default to remain on my website while watching added vids, is this a bug or a intended feature? Please advice. Thank you.
Regards, Hans

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