Wrong Name and URL for Sitemap

I have three sites. Two have been using this plug in for the past 2 years with no problems. They create the sitemap.xml at the path https://www.domain.com/sitemap.xml and this path is given in the settings of the Plugin. In the new site, the sitemap url is
https://www.ordinarychild.co/index.php?xml_sitemap=params=
Not even the format of the other sites.

I just set up a new site and one of the first plugins I add is this. I didn’t check on Google Webmasters if it was working as I was busy getting all the other bits put together so I do not know if this problem was inherent from the start of caused by another action. I also installed SEO Pack (can’t no recall which but the most popular one with over 1m downloads). It seemed very heavy and did heaps of scary things so I uninstall and deleted it. Later I found that Google couldn’t find my sitemap.

There is obviously something wrong as the other sites are fine and all the settings are the same. I use the same theme “suffusion” and most of the same plugins. I tried to disable all the plugins but that didn’t help. I checked the database but it didn’t seem to have much content (only 4 pages and one post so far) I can’t see what is making this sitemap url different. I followed instructions to move the sitemap to the root directory as my WP install is in domain.co/wp subfolder. I compared the htaccess and index.php in both the root and the wp folder and compared these to the other sites and can’t see anything that could be overriding the url.

Any help would be appreciated. It’s driving me nuts. If I can’t solve it, I will have to trash the whole site and start again.
I’m on wp 4.4 and the latest version of the plugin – 4.08
I’m most confused by the format of the url.
Also, I can’t get wp to generate the robots.txt file. I created a physical one for the time being but wp should create a virtual one and I just get a 404.

site url is: https://www.ordinarychild.co

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