WordPress.com to www.remarpro.com transition trouble

I have had a blog on Blogspot for almost a year now and about a month or so ago, I decided to make the move to WordPress. I went to wordpress.com and set up the blog there, not knowing that www.remarpro.com was a completely different animal. I found this out when I was trying to get all of the widgets from blogspot to work on my new wordpress.com site and most did not.

I have my domain at https://traylorlovvorn.com and have loaded the WordPress 2.7.1 onto the server. I am trying to install everything, but I continue to get the dashboard for my wordpress.com site.

I need help loading www.remarpro.com so that I can make the transition. PLEASE HELP!!