using the contact widget

hi
is there a way to let users send a contact mail using the “contact widget” directly to the listing email, even thow the listing belong to ather and he didnt claim the listing ? and i will explain my question with more details:
im building a law directory and when i submit a new lawyer i update his email…in this time he still didnt claimed his listing. if a user send an email using the contact widget the email will send to me but i want that the contact widget will use the listing email and not my without claiming….is there is a way to do that?
thank you a lot