Thanks for the help Les, I do appreciate it!
Looks like a nice option, the site I’m doing is for a client (not for me), so I want to stay as close to the original proposal as possible. I did find WonderPlugin that seems to offer exactly what I want ( https://www.wonderplugin.com/wordpress-tabs/ ). Unfortunately, it is far from free (yes, I do need to remove the WonderPlugin free version’s “watermark”)!
I’m surprised if the built in Elementor tabs can’t be individually addressed. Most of the time I build custom html/php sites (rather than WordPress sites) and use the wonderful Project VII products for Tabs and similar things. Also not free! I’m use to this being a very simple thing to do and “assumed” it would also be simple in Elementor/WordPress… you know what they say about assuming ??