Top Menu – issues

When I go to customize my top menu (Appearance…Menus), I am able to do all this fine. The problem is, that it doesn’t show up. There is some other similar menu that is on there that I must have done when I first started using the site, but wasn’t sure how to use it. I don’t see that menu that actually shows up anywhere in the Dashboard, so I have no clue where it’s coming from, but I obviously created it at some point.

How can I get the website to show what I’m customizing in the menu?

Thanks in advance for all your help.

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