Technorati Can’t Find My Site, Feed not updating

I’m at my wits end on trying to get my feed to publish properly, I’ve spent hours here in the help sections trying to resolve this situation and I’ve tried every plugin I can find, including the on from boren.nu to no avail.

I’m running WP 2.0.2 and Technorati cannot find my site without a lot of cajoling and when it does it double enters previous posts without showing the very latest, I’ve installed the Technorati automatic ping updater, I’ve reworked the .htaccess file over and over.

Using Feedburner is just as bad, I get it to work one day and then the the very next article I write it’s broken again and I have to renew the feed link with Feedburner. Even Bloglines can’t find the updated posts with the feed link that worked just the day before! This happens everytime single time I publish!

I’ve tried using different variations of the permalinks and using anything other than default the archives become unreachable and the feeds are still broken. Instead of writing content I spend several hours each day toying with the feeds. Without them working properly my site is useless.

I don’t know if anyone can help but it would be most appreciated, my site is located at https://www.blogflak.com

thanks!