slideshowpro help embed flash using kml embed plugin

I have done this [url]https://firehouseservices.com/firehouse/?page_id=5[/url] in WordPress 1.5 and am at a loss, I’ve tried every combination of moving things to different folders and adding and taking away the / before the .swf file link.

the root of the wordpress site is https://www.firehouseservices.com/firehouse the .swf file and images.xml file are located at https://www.firehouseservices.com/firehouse/wp-images/momshow/slideshow.swf or images.xml

It appears to not be pulling up the xml file. I am using kml flash embed and typing it in like ths [code]<kml_flashembed movie="https://www.firehouseservices.com/firehouse/wp-images/momshow/slideshow.swf" height="367" width="514"></kml_flashembed>[/code]

here is how it is supposed to appear. [url]https://firehouseservices.com/firehouse/wp-images/momshow/slideshow.html[/url]

I just get the little preloader and the box where it is supposed to show up but no gallery menu or anythinhg shows up at all.

I am at my wits end. I am trying to put this together for my mother and could someone lend me a hand … i beg of you all! ??