Have you thought about using a theme that shows the sidebar on the right for all pages instead of trying to customize a theme when it seems like you don’t know PHP?
There are many themes out there to choose from…
If you want to try modifying the theme, look at the themes index.php and see where the code above is located. Now look at the code arround it. Next go to the page.php and look for the code that would be around the code above and make them look the same.
Be warned, if you make a mistake in altering the theme’s php code, you could cause your site to not work. Be sure that you are able to access the files via FTP or your host’s cPanel’s file manager before you make any changes!
You might want to down load a clean copy of the theme so you can replace the file you change if something goes wrong.