Safety protection for my site

I have several times been attacked by such as “hacked by XXX”.
Due to my own poor knowledge of such topics, Im a gardener,
I have resorted to shut down my website.

A friend asked me pleeease start again, so here we go

arildkrovoll.net

There must be some kind of protection software I could buy, so I dont have to get these attacks !??

Im now trying wordfence, free version. Other such security packs I should know of?

On my webhotel, located at proisp.no, I have two domains. The main itrollheimen.net is a joomla site, with a two year old Joomla veersion — could this cause any trouble – should I better delete it?
And the other, this wordpress 3.5.1 site, maybe I should stay with this one only, keep this safe, get rid of Joomla (since Joomla is waaay to difficult for me to manage).

Thanks for all your kind help!

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