Request: Attempt to notify any blogs…

I do some cross-linking of my posts for multi-part articles, etc… I also have the option, “Attempt to notify any blogs linked to from the article (slows down posting.)” and “Allow link notifications from other blogs (pingbacks and trackbacks.)” Can there be an option that disables notifications and/or ping/trackbacks to occur from articles originating from certain domains or your own site?

Thanks