posted link in Facebook shows header image

I’ve just re-skinned my old blog using a child theme based on Twenty Twelve. https://yphotography.co.uk

I’ve set the default post type as Image, to put the headings at the bottom, I have also messed about a little bit with the default layout, as you do.

When you post a link to a blog post in Facebook, it picks the header PNG as a thumbnail. If you re-post, it gets it right the second time.

Is there any way to convince Facebook to ignore the header and grab the top photo first time?