[Plugin: Page Lists Plus] Just what I was looking for!

I have loaded this utility, but can’t find how to use it. Should i see editing options in Visual Editor?

My apologies, as I hadn’t received an email notification. Basically, you should use this utility when you work on an individual page. When you are editing or creating a page, you scroll down the page and there will be options under Page Lists Plus, for example, to exclude/include the page from appearing in your page list or to redirect your page to another. You can adjust local and global settings in your plugin settings menu, such as adding a link to your home page, if you didn’t have one in the first place.

I used this inconjunction with wp_list_pages in header.php and exclude pages (in your pages widget) in order to get my menus looking exactly as I wanted them. This meant I had certain pages in my sidebar, but completely different pages in my menu and vice versa.