This plugin is absolutely trash! I’ve found out how I can create a backtrace and UM calls the reset 4 times like I wrote above. The 3rd one is the one sent by the email and the last one is saved to the database:
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] require('wp-blog-header.php'), require_once('wp-includes/template-loader.php'), do_action('template_redirect'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->form_init, do_action('um_reset_password_process_hook'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->um_reset_password_process_hook, um\core\User->password_reset, get_password_reset_key
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Hashed: 1546178692:$P$BJoSYtR913FSi..xNSAdZaC6RwqYVC1
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Key saved: 1546178692:$P$BJoSYtR913FSi..xNSAdZaC6RwqYVC1
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] require('wp-blog-header.php'), require_once('wp-includes/template-loader.php'), do_action('template_redirect'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->form_init, do_action('um_reset_password_process_hook'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->um_reset_password_process_hook, um\core\User->password_reset, um\core\Mail->send, um_convert_tags, um_user, um\core\Password->reset_url, get_password_reset_key
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Hashed: 1546178692:$P$B6/0iQI1Ke5KODTKihHCctTROvUorc.
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Key saved: 1546178692:$P$B6/0iQI1Ke5KODTKihHCctTROvUorc.
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] require('wp-blog-header.php'), require_once('wp-includes/template-loader.php'), do_action('template_redirect'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->form_init, do_action('um_reset_password_process_hook'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->um_reset_password_process_hook, um\core\User->password_reset, um\core\Mail->send, um\core\Mail->prepare_template, um\core\Mail->get_email_template, include('/themes/enwikuna/ultimate-member/email/resetpw_email.php'), um\core\Password->reset_url, get_password_reset_key
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Hashed: 1546178692:$P$BSQgzwcRgvKVaSbQ5U5uQ.YUHIHfoB.
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Key saved: 1546178692:$P$BSQgzwcRgvKVaSbQ5U5uQ.YUHIHfoB.
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Reset URL: https://www.enwikuna.de/passwort-zuruecksetzten/?act=reset_password&hash=6vjgRQfnvawpH5Ga6S8S&user_id=19
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] require('wp-blog-header.php'), require_once('wp-includes/template-loader.php'), do_action('template_redirect'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->form_init, do_action('um_reset_password_process_hook'), WP_Hook->do_action, WP_Hook->apply_filters, um\core\Password->um_reset_password_process_hook, um\core\User->password_reset, um\core\Mail->send, um\core\Mail->prepare_template, um_convert_tags, um_user, um\core\Password->reset_url, get_password_reset_key
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Hashed: 1546178692:$P$Bw6cVAT69d34uzXkEf2uKAYf40Kwnm/
[30-Dec-2018 14:04:52 UTC] Key saved: 1546178692:$P$Bw6cVAT69d34uzXkEf2uKAYf40Kwnm/