[NSFW] NSFW – member search = how do I..?

Hi there.
Using the profile search within the system.
Fields are ‘I am a..” and then ‘Looking for a ..”.
Ideally, we’d like the search to show results if field one is, for instance, male, and field 2 is female.
So if I search ‘looking for a female’ to get results from Profiles for only that designation on results i.e. a woman.
Which seems to be in reverse of the logic of the plugin, or am I missing something or being totally stupid? LOL

Thanks in Advance~
Blake

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