Note to seller

I have a problem with the [saleNoteToSeller] staying blank in my emails.
I’m trying to figure out a way to work around this, without having the client mailing me back for extra information.

At first i added that Notetoseller to my client fields at checkout, but as everyone knows, they are all mandatory!
Is there a way to uncheck that particular text field (note to seller) from being mandatory?

i have looked at the php code (every code) but i’m not that smart to write my own code otherwise i would have solved the problem allready :s
I can’t find anything about it.

It’s really important since ” Accept Purchaser Text Input” at the stageshow settings doesn’t work at all.