3.5 isn’t the issue… the plugin simply doesn’t work, because Youtube changed their system.
You need to replace the ampersands with question marks and remove “?feature=oembed” entirely. I’m not sure if there’s a downside to doing this… all I know is that it works.
Here’s the bad code on line 33:
return str_replace('&feature=oembed', '&feature=oembed&rel=0', $data);
And here’s what it should be:
return str_replace('?feature=oembed', '?rel=0', $data);
However, if you’re like me and use other embeds, like Flickr, you’ll want to make this adjustment for Youtube embeds only. So here’s what I changed line 33 to:
$data = preg_replace('/(youtube\.com.*)(\?feature=oembed)(.*)/', '$1?rel=0$3', $data);
return $data;
Hope that helps.