no header link for the wordpress page, just another link.

hi?

Open your header.php.
Look for:
<div id="header">

<h1>www|oyehoy|com</h1>

<p class="site_description">…….and even though i fall from grace, I will keep the dream alive…….</p>

<ul id="nav">
<li class="current_page_item" ><a href="https://www.oyehoy.com&quot; >downtown</a></li>
<li class="page_item"><a href="https://www.oyehoy.com/about-me/&quot; title="About Me">About Me</a></li>
<li class="page_item"><a href="https://www.oyehoy.com/contact/&quot; title="Contact">Contact</a></li>
<li class="page_item"><a href="https://www.oyehoy.com/last-fm/&quot; title="last FM">last FM</a></li>
<li class="page_item"><a href="https://www.oyehoy.com/about-this-site/&quot; title="Music ">Music </a></li>

<li class="page_item"><a href="https://www.oyehoy.com/fotos/&quot; title="Fotos">Fotos</a></li>

</ul>

</div>
Follow the example of your other links to add more.
IOW,
<li class="page_item"><a href="https://www.oyehoy.com/fotos/" title="Fotos">Fotos</a></li>

Hope this helps.