How they will find my super – duper site? Google? Dont think so…
Actually, yes. That is, if you have good and legitimate content. The age of linkfarms and webrings is long-gone. If your content is good enough, you will be listed towards the top of most major search engine results, and this is where the majority of your one-time visitors come from. How to keep those one-time visitors as returning visitors is up to you. But, since you feel like being such a smart ass, I suppose you already knew that.
The only other recommendation that I could give you is to add your URL to your profile’s signature in whatever forum(s) that you post regularly on. Signature URLs tend to draw the attention of other forum regulars. Do not spam the forums or any other site for that matter. That will get you banned from those particular forums, sites, and sometimes search engines. Then you’ll be up Shit Creek without a paddle.
I can offer this page on Search Engine Optimization for WordPress, but as Moshu said, “Maybe I am wrong, but I don’t see any WP related question in this thread… Why don’t look for sites that deal with your problem?”
https://www.google.com/search?num=20&hl=en&rls=en&q=How+do+I+get+more+visitors%3F&btnG=Search