My Sites only displays main site

I have two sites that I just upgraded to 3.2.1. They both only list the main site when I click on the menu item, “My Sites”.

Site #1 displays this at the top of the dashboard”
“Thank you for Updating! Please visit the Update Network page to update all your sites.” I am able to click on Update Network which takes me to a page which has the menu item, Pair of keys and “Sites” which takes me to a page which lists the main site and the one other site I have up.

On the previous version I had there was a Network Admin link I could use to get to sub sites, but it’s not on version 3.2.1.

Site #2 does not have that message at the top of the dashboard for the main site. So to edit the sub site I have on this one, I have to go to a link that I had put on the main site to get to it and then I have access to its dashboard.

For both sites I got the message Update successful. So why these obtuse problems getting to subsites? Am I missing something here?

Bruce