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But…
– first problem:
first menu item letter, add this to your custom css or your child-theme style.css
.navbar .nav>li>a:first-letter{ font-size: inherit;}
– second problem:
not a theme a problem, the thing is that the link of those “red” menu items is “https://dodiesattheharbor.com” = your home page so wordpress,
understandably, treats them as the current-menu-item (current-page-item). That’s why they are “highlighted”. If you go to https://dodiesattheharbor.com/contact/
you’ll see just the “Contact” menu item highlighted.
So go in your menu settings and change the href of those menu items to “#”.
Hope this helps.