Login button on top rrr

How can $menu == 78 when $menu is a string of nav menu items?

I did get it working, with the code below. BUT, the order is wrong,

We got: Home | About | Logout | Profile

What I wanted: Home | About | Profile | Logout

Is there a way to change that order? The Logout and Profile are not part of the menu on the WP menu, they are generated by this code:

add_filter( 'wp_nav_menu_items', 'my_nav_menu_profile_link' );
function my_nav_menu_profile_link($menu) {
    if (!is_user_logged_in())
        return $menu;
    else
        $current_user = wp_get_current_user();
        $user=$current_user->user_login ;
        $profilelink = '<li><a href="' . bp_loggedin_user_domain( '/dashboard' ) . '">' . __('Profile') . '</a></li>';
        $menu = $menu . $profilelink;
        return $menu;

}

I would just add the Profile link directly to the nav menu via the interface. Then, using the appropriate hook, render the nav menu item invalid if the user is not logged in (i.e. it won’t display).

function setup_profile_nav_menu_item( $menu_item ) {

	// Bail if in admin
	if ( is_admin() )
		return $menu_item;

	// Bail if no post type
	if ( empty( $menu_item->post_type ) )
		return $menu_item;

	// Bail if not a nav menu item
	if ( 'nav_menu_item' != $menu_item->post_type )
		return $menu_item;

	// Bail if not a custom nav menu item
	if ( 'custom' != $menu_item->type )
		return $menu_item;

	// Bail if not the Profile menu item
	if ( 'Profile' != $menu_item->title )
		return $menu_item;

	// Looks like this is our Profile item ;-)
	$menu_item->url = bp_loggedin_user_domain( '/dashboard' );

	// Don't show if not logged in
	if ( ! is_user_logged_in() )
		$menu_item->_invalid = true;

	return $menu_item;
}
add_filter( 'wp_setup_nav_menu_item', 'setup_profile_nav_menu_item' );