ok i got the ‘Link your Facebook account…’ message away with using firefox 13 instead of chromium 21. it might have been a beta-browser issue, so nevermind that.
anyway, the next point after Authenticate with Facebook in the WordPress control panel (you will see a status message at the top, asking you to do so).
is Publish a post or page to your WordPress site. You should see the post on your Timeline. You can delete the blog post.
so i did this, but nothing appears on my timeline. whats the problem now? after i publish a page and go back into the facebook for wordpress control panel, the checkmark at “Publish to author’s Timeline [?]” is gone. so i again set it (the popup with the instructions appear), save the changes, write a post, publish it, it appears on my wordpress blog, it does not appear on my facebook timeline, and going back to the control panel, the checkmark again is gone. what’s up with this?