Link for Users to Delete Their Events

I have Events Manager set up with WP-Members, members use/access the Guest Submission Form
my-account/submit-an-event/

I figured out they could edit their events from this page also by going to
my-account/submit-an-event/?post=IDNUMBER&action=edit

The capabilities are set so they could delete their own events, but what would the link look like for that?
my-account/submit-an-event/?post=IDNUMBER&action=trash
didn’t work, and Im trying to keep them on the front end, is there an easy way to do that?