I don't want to be invisible

Mingle looks great so far. The 5 minute Mingle setup (search for it online) is good. Only problem is that I am the admin and it put me in the list of invisible users…can’t friend people, etc…and the settings page will not allow me to remove myself from the users who will be invisible! How do I get myself out of that list? I can select myself in the invisible user list, but not delete my user name from there. HELP!!!