https://areyoudesperate.co.nz/

It takes too long to load. You either need to reduce the amount of posts on the front page, use wp-cache, optimize some images, get a better/faster host, or all of the above.

I tried 2 browsers, took way too long for both of em for everything to load. Closed the windows, I’m sorry. I did see that its valid, God knows that’s more than what some people can accomplish.