How do I speed up my site

I’m sorry, but we can’t allow links like that here.

I recommend using https://gtmetrix.com/ and https://www.webpagetest.org/ as they offer great suggestions in the results given.

I also see those instructions but its too difficult for me. So can anyone help me with looking my website and tell which scripts are slowing down?

Given the nature of your site, I recommend hiring someone for that.

Please try https://jobs.wordpress.net/ or https://directory.codepoet.com/ and do not accept any hire offers posted to these forums.

Are those services free ?

I think there must be free to use by everyone..

The sites are free, hiring people isn’t free.

Basically, you can’t share links to your porn site here, so no one can help you for free here regarding this particular issue.

If you can’t fix it your by yourself with the information provided by GTMetrix and Web Page Test, you’ll need to hire someone to do it for you.

Note: I see that you continue to post links to your porn site, even after being warned. I really don’t want to have to block your access to these support forums, so please stop doing that.