How do I get my site to look like..

you add pages and posts using the dashboard after login here which is just your yourdomain.com/wp-admin.

the pages and posts section are found on the side bar on the left

thanks, but what about the pictures, the “read testimonial” bits?

I’ve added pages but they’re not showing up. I have NO idea how to make it look ANYTHING like https://www.buildmyfans.com/

For a start, you need to read all of the documentation that came with your theme. Then, as this is a commercial theme whose template files are not freely available, seek support from the theme’s vendors.
https://themeforest.net/forums/topic/themeforest/themeforest

And please stop posting the same question multiple times.

Where do I find the documentation? all I see is credits and legal stuff in the zip

and it wasn’t the same question. I was asking for a mentor.

Your bumps have been deleted, they’re not permitted.

You are requesting help about a commercial theme. Please visit https://themeforest.net/forums/topic/themeforest/themeforest for support on that theme. We do not generally support commercial themes for free here, as that takes away from people trying to make a living. Also it’s always best to use the official support forums for any product. In this case, it’s ThemeForest.

If you want it to look like the other site I would suggest paying someone to do it, making a website is not an easy thing and that is why they cost thousands to make. I would say you are in over your head