gallery and slide-show help

Hi I’m making a site on which gone be many photo galleries and pictures in posts or pages and on the side bar I need a slide-show just like gadget on windows vista (showing all pictures to show navigation and on click on picture to link to gallery not to change picture).
AND ONE MORE the site gone have many galleries I need the slide-show to load fast.

If I’m taring NextGen slide-show or NextGen slide-show widget I just can figure out how to do. It’s same problem with other plugins working with NextGen gallery.

If any one know solution or can tall me which plugins to use to make it all simple.

The wishes are:
– to have lightbox tor pictures
– slide-show on side bar (every page)(i need control of size of slide show, navigation, show all pictures in the site, click on picture linking to the page or post or gallery)
– simple in making, managing or adding galleries or single pictures to pages or posts in different places
– possible to upload folders and zip files
– auto generate thumbnails
– and best to automatically crop pictures to specific size and resolutions
– working in IE 6,7,8,9 and others browsers