Form not ‘grow’

Hi
I have a form that I am trying to work.

Several problems I have sorted main one being the background color.
The background color button when clicked appears elsewhere on the page and I must move to new location before releasing the button or cannot change color. irritating.

My main issue now is the error messages and even the success message. These messages appear outside the border of the form. It is ugly. I have seen forms, some of your examples even that allow the border to grow, the whole form grows to accommodate the error message

This is what I don’t want
https://noblelife.com.au/blogger/index.php/stop-smoking/

This is what I want
https://noblelife.com.au/blogger/index.php/stop-smoking/

Cannot find the option to make it behave like this anywhere.

Thanks

Kevin

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