Filtering Add-On in Bundles

Can I filter out the Add-On(s) of a specific item in a bundled product like I can variations?

I have a bundled item (Camping Package) that includes a stove and a bag to carry it in. These stoves and bags come in 3 different sized. For the stoves I have 3 variations (sizes/weights) and and the bag are using add-ons for the 3 different sizes.

This works great for the single items.

When these are included in the Camping Bundle I can force the stove to be the medium size by filtering the variations but I need to remove the size add-on added to the bag so the customer does not choose the wrong size?