Hi Blue,
Sorry for the long wait. My apologies.
So, to change the password you have to have access to your MySQL DB. I’m going to assume that you do. To change the password start at the MySQL dashboard, then select “Privileges.” From the Privileges menu, find the user that you’re looking for, the same one that you specified in your wp-config file. Once you’ve found your user, click the “Edit Privileges” button on the far right-hand side of the menu (usually a pencil or a pencil with a person icon). Once on the user page scroll to the “Change Password” box, click the Password radio button, then enter the new password twice, then click “Go” in the bottom right-hand corner of the box. This will change your user password on the MySQL side.
Glad to hear you found wp-options. There are two entries you need to check in wp-options. The first is line one of the table, which is “siteurl”. This needs to match exactly the url of your site. The second line is on the second page of the table, so click the single arrow at the top of the table to go to the second page. This entry is option-id 39, and its name is “home”. This entry also needs to be set to the exact URL of your site. They should be correctly set, but if they’re not click the edit button (pencil icon) on the left-hand side of table to edit them. Once on the edit page change the URL to match the URL of your blog, then click “Go” in the bottom right-hand corner of the box. That should do it!
I hope you’ve had some luck with your blog. If so, please post what solution worked for you to help others with the same problem.