Edit the navigation

Hello,

I am trying to edit the navigation to my custom design i made in photoshop, after looking for some tutorials on how to edit the navigation i came across this code to work with.

<?php wp_nav_menu( array( ‘container_class’ => ‘menu-header’, ‘theme_location’ => ‘primary’ ) ); ?>

With this code i use the following css to edit my header

.menu {width:890px; height:32px; position:relative; z-index:100;font-family:arial, sans-serif; }
/* hack to correct IE5.5 faulty box model */
* html .menu {width:800px; w\idth:745px;}
/* remove all the bullets, borders and padding from the default list styling */
.menu ul {padding:0;margin:0;list-style-type:none;}
.menu ul ul {width:129px;}
/* float the list to make it horizontal and a relative positon so that you can control the dropdown menu positon */
.menu li {float:left;position:relative;}

.menu ul li a{padding-left:3px; padding-right:3px;width:80px; background:red; }
.menu ul li:nth-child(1) { width:80px; height:60px; background:red;}
.menu ul li:nth-child(2) { width:100px; height:60px; background:red;}
.menu ul li:nth-child(3) { width:120px; height:60px; background:red;}
.menu ul li:nth-child(4) { width:80px; height:60px; background:red;}
.menu ul li:nth-child(5) { width:100px; height:60px; background:red;}
.menu ul li:nth-child(6) { width:80px; height:60px; background:red;}
.menu ul li:nth-child(7) { width:80px; height:60px; background:red;}

/* style the links for the top level */
.menu a, .menu a:visited {display:block;font-size:14px;text-decoration:none: ;text-weight:strong;color:black; width:110px; height:30px; padding-left:10px;line-height:29px; font-weight:bold; }
/* a hack so that IE5.5 faulty box model is corrected */
* html .menu a, * html .menu a:visited {width:149px; w\idth:138px;}

/* style the second level background */
.menu ul ul a.drop, .menu ul ul a.drop:visited {background:#d4d8bd url(https://www.cssplay.co.uk/menus/breadcrumbs/grey-arrow.gif) no-repeat 130px center;}
/* style the second level hover */
.menu ul ul a.drop:hover{background:#c9ba65 url(https://www.cssplay.co.uk/menus/breadcrumbs/blue-arrow.gif) no-repeat 130px center;}
.menu ul ul :hover > a.drop {background:#c9ba65 url(https://www.cssplay.co.uk/menus/breadcrumbs/blue-arrow.gif) no-repeat 130px center;}
/* style the third level background */
.menu ul ul ul a, .menu ul ul ul a:visited {background:#e2dfa8;}
/* style the third level hover */
.menu ul ul ul a:hover {background:#b2ab9b;}

/* hide the sub levels and give them a positon absolute so that they take up no room */
.menu ul ul {visibility:hidden;position:absolute;height:0;top:31px;left:0; width:149px;border-top:1px solid #000;}
/* another hack for IE5.5 */
* html .menu ul ul {top:30px;t\op:31px;}

/* position the third level flyout menu */
.menu ul ul ul{left:149px; top:-1px; width:149px;}

/* position the third level flyout menu for a left flyout */
.menu ul ul ul.left {left:-149px;}

/* style the table so that it takes no ppart in the layout - required for IE to work */
.menu table {position:absolute; top:0; left:0; border-collapse:collapse;;}

/* style the second level links */
.menu ul ul a, .menu ul ul a:visited {background:#d4d8bd; color:#000; height:auto; line-height:1em; padding:5px 10px; width:128px;border-width:0 1px 1px 1px;}
/* yet another hack for IE5.5 */
* html .menu ul ul a, * html .menu ul ul a:visited {width:150px;w\idth:128px;}

/* style the top level hover */

.menu a:hover:nth-child(1), .menu ul ul a:hover:nth-child(1) { width:80px; height:60px; background:green;}
.menu :hover:nth-child(1) > a, .menu ul ul :hover:nth-child(1) { width:80px; height:60px; background:green;}

.menu a:hover:nth-child(2), .menu ul ul a:hover:nth-child(2) { width:100px; height:60px; background:blue;}
.menu :hover:nth-child(2) > a, .menu ul ul :hover:nth-child(2) { width:100px; height:60px; background:blue;}

.menu a:hover:nth-child(3), .menu ul ul a:hover:nth-child(3) { width:120px; height:60px; background:red}
.menu :hover:nth-child(3) > a, .menu ul ul :hover:nth-child(3) { width:120px;height:60px; background:red;}

.menu a:hover:nth-child(4), .menu ul ul a:hover:nth-child(4) { width:80px; height:60px; background:yellow;}
.menu :hover:nth-child(4) > a, .menu ul ul :hover:nth-child(4) { width:80px; height:60px; background:yellow;}

.menu a:hover:nth-child(5), .menu ul ul a:hover:nth-child(5) { width:100px; height:60px; background:yellow;}
.menu :hover:nth-child(5) > a, .menu ul ul :hover:nth-child(5) { width:100px; height:60px;background:yellow;}

.menu a:hover:nth-child(6), .menu ul ul a:hover:nth-child(6) { width:80px; height:60px; background:green;}
.menu :hover:nth-child(6) > a, .menu ul ul :hover:nth-child(6) { width:80px; height:60px; background:green;}

.menu a:hover:nth-child(7), .menu ul ul a:hover:nth-child(7) { width:80px; height:60px; background:green;}
.menu :hover:nth-child(7) > a, .menu ul ul :hover:nth-child(7) { width:80px; height:60px; background:green;}

/* make the second level visible when hover on first level list OR link */
.menu ul li:hover ul,
.menu ul a:hover ul{visibility:visible; }
/* keep the third level hidden when you hover on first level list OR link */
.menu ul :hover ul ul{visibility:hidden;}
/* make the third level visible when you hover over second level list OR link */
.menu ul :hover ul :hover ul{ visibility:visible;}

At the moment i am experimenting with the css to got what i want but i just can not figure out how to get the following menu.

(see picture) https://img35.imageshack.us/img35/9869/testnavin.png
I want to have a menu item with a icon above it , when u hover the icon and the categorie should change color.
Also a submenu should pop out ( if the categorie got one).

My question to u guys is if somebody know how to style the css to get this effect and maybe someone can give me a tutorial becouse i can’t find one.

Cheers and thanks in advance