Duplicator install prolbems

hi guys,
I am migrating a wordpress website from one host to another.
I have used duplicator to create the package and installer.

The installer refuses to run citing connection issues with the server.

The web host has stated that I cannot use “localhost” but they have given me the ip addresses to enter.

Trouble is, which ip address doe I use…

the main server local ip address,
the mysql public ip address,
or the MySQL private ip address?

In order to problem solve..I have tried to install it on my local xampp system at home but am getting absolutely no where.

Is there a way I can manually copy packages and installer into wordpress directory and have the program detect it from inside wordpress?

kind regards
adam

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