DNS problems

i am hosted by blue host…my domain name is registered with name secure.

I update the name server and now my website JohnJMaio.com points to the root director of bluehost and not my word press site

I want JohnJMaio.com to point to https://69.195.124.81/~johnjmai/johnjmaio/

how in god’s name do I do it….and help would be greatly appreciated